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Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) is a comprehensive, evidence-based treatment that combines cognitive-behavioral techniques with mindfulness principles to help people who experience intense emotions develop skills in distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness. At Advanced Health and Education in Eatontown, NJ, DBT skills are integrated across our treatment programs.
What Is Dialectical Behavior Therapy?
Dialectical Behavior Therapy, or DBT, is a structured form of psychotherapy developed in the late 1980s by Marsha M. Linehan, Ph.D., a psychologist at the University of Washington. Linehan originally designed DBT to treat chronically suicidal individuals, many of whom met the criteria for borderline personality disorder (BPD) — a condition characterized by extreme emotional instability, turbulent relationships, impulsive behavior, and chronic feelings of emptiness.1
The word “dialectical” is central to understanding this therapy. In philosophy, a dialectic is the resolution of opposing ideas into something new. In DBT, the core dialectic is between acceptance and change. Standard cognitive-behavioral therapy had emphasized change — changing thoughts, changing behaviors. But Linehan discovered that for many of her clients, an exclusive focus on change felt invalidating and led them to disengage from treatment. By balancing acceptance strategies (drawn from Zen mindfulness practices) with change strategies (drawn from cognitive-behavioral science), DBT created a framework in which clients felt validated and motivated to build a better life.2
DBT is currently the only psychotherapy with the highest level of empirical support for treating borderline personality disorder, as confirmed by the Cochrane Collaborative Review.3 Beyond BPD, research has demonstrated its effectiveness for substance use disorders, mood disorders, eating disorders (including binge eating and bulimia), post-traumatic stress disorder, and self-harming behaviors in both adults and adolescents.4
The Four DBT Skill Modules
DBT is organized around four skill modules, each targeting a different area of difficulty:
Mindfulness is considered the foundation of all DBT skills. It teaches clients to observe their own experience — thoughts, feelings, sensations — without judgment and without trying to change anything. Mindfulness in DBT draws from Zen Buddhist contemplative practices and helps people develop what Linehan calls “wise mind,” a synthesis of emotional experience and rational thought.5
Distress Tolerance teaches clients to survive emotional crises without making things worse. This is not about eliminating pain — it’s about getting through intense moments without resorting to destructive behaviors like substance use, self-harm, or aggressive outbursts. Skills in this module include techniques for self-soothing, distraction, improving the moment, and radical acceptance — the full acknowledgment of reality as it is, even when reality is painful.
Emotion Regulation helps clients understand their emotions, reduce their vulnerability to overwhelming emotional reactions, and change emotions they want to change. Clients learn to identify and label their emotions, understand the functions emotions serve, reduce emotional reactivity through lifestyle changes (like improving sleep and physical health), and use techniques like “opposite action” — deliberately acting opposite to the urge that an unhelpful emotion produces.
Interpersonal Effectiveness focuses on navigating relationships more skillfully. Clients learn strategies for asking for what they need, saying no when necessary, and maintaining self-respect in relationships — all while keeping the relationship itself intact. These skills are especially valuable for people whose emotional intensity has led to patterns of conflict, withdrawal, or unstable relationships.
DBT and Substance Use Disorders
Because substance use disorders frequently co-occur with borderline personality disorder and other conditions involving emotional dysregulation, Linehan and her colleagues developed a specific adaptation called DBT for Substance Abusers (DBT-SUD). This adaptation incorporates everything from standard DBT while adding new concepts and strategies designed specifically for addiction, including “dialectical abstinence” — which synthesizes the absolute commitment to abstinence with practical, non-judgmental planning for how to respond if a lapse occurs.6
Multiple randomized controlled trials have demonstrated that DBT-SUD significantly reduces substance abuse in patients with co-occurring BPD, improves treatment retention, and produces gains in overall functioning that persist at follow-up.7 DBT is considered the “first choice” treatment for individuals with co-occurring borderline personality disorder and substance use disorders.8
At Advanced Health and Education in Eatontown, New Jersey, DBT-informed skills training is integrated across residential, PHP, and IOP levels of care. Clients working through borderline personality disorder, depression, trauma-related conditions, and co-occurring substance use benefit from DBT’s practical approach to building emotional stability in Monmouth County.
How Dialectical Behavior Therapy Works
Standard DBT is a comprehensive treatment model with four distinct components that work together. This structure is one of the features that distinguishes DBT from other therapies — it’s not just individual sessions or just group work, but an integrated system.2
Individual Therapy
Each client meets one-on-one with a DBT therapist, typically weekly. These sessions focus on applying DBT skills to specific problems in the client’s life, reviewing any crises or dangerous behaviors that occurred since the last session, and working on personal treatment goals. The therapist follows a structured “target hierarchy” that prioritizes issues in this order: (1) life-threatening behaviors, (2) behaviors that interfere with therapy, (3) behaviors that interfere with quality of life, and (4) skill-building.
Skills Training Group
Clients attend a weekly group session — typically lasting about two hours — where the four DBT skill modules are taught in a structured, classroom-style format. Group sessions include a review of homework from the previous week, instruction in new skills, and practice exercises. The skills group cycles through all four modules over approximately 24 weeks, and clients typically complete the full cycle at least once.
Phone Coaching
DBT clients have access to brief phone coaching between sessions. The purpose is not open-ended therapy by phone, but targeted, in-the-moment coaching on how to use DBT skills during a real-life crisis. The idea is to help clients generalize their skills from the therapy room into their actual lives at the moments they need them most.
Therapist Consultation Team
DBT therapists participate in a weekly consultation team — essentially a support group for the therapists themselves. Treating individuals with severe emotional dysregulation, suicidal behavior, and substance use is demanding work, and the consultation team helps therapists stay motivated, balanced, and effective. This component is often invisible to clients but is considered essential to the integrity of the treatment.
The Biosocial Theory
DBT is grounded in what Linehan calls the “biosocial theory” of emotional dysregulation. This theory holds that conditions like BPD develop from the interaction of two factors: a biological vulnerability to intense emotions (the “bio” component) and an invalidating environment during development (the “social” component). In an invalidating environment, a child’s emotional experiences are dismissed, punished, or ignored, so the child never learns to label, regulate, or tolerate emotions effectively. DBT works by providing the validation and skill-building that the invalidating environment failed to provide.1
What to Expect in DBT
DBT at Advanced Health and Education incorporates the core elements of evidence-based DBT adapted to our treatment setting. Whether you’re in our residential, partial hospitalization, or intensive outpatient program, you’ll encounter DBT skills in multiple formats throughout your treatment week.
In the early stages, your therapist will work with you to identify treatment targets — the specific behaviors and patterns that most need to change. If you’re struggling with substance use, self-harm, or other dangerous behaviors, those will be the first priority. From there, you’ll focus on behaviors that could interfere with getting the most out of treatment (like missing sessions or not participating) and then on quality-of-life issues.
You’ll participate in skills training groups where you’ll learn the four DBT modules — mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness. These groups are educational and participatory. You’ll be given handouts, practice exercises, and homework assignments designed to help you integrate the skills into your daily life. Skills groups are not traditional group therapy focused on sharing personal stories; they are structured learning sessions where you build a concrete toolkit.
In individual sessions, your therapist will help you apply the skills you’re learning to your specific situations and challenges. If you experienced a crisis or used substances since the last session, you’ll review what happened using a technique called “chain analysis” — a detailed, non-judgmental examination of the sequence of events, thoughts, emotions, and behaviors that led to the problem behavior, followed by a “solution analysis” identifying where DBT skills could have changed the outcome.
DBT asks for significant engagement. You’ll be expected to track your emotions, urges, and skill use on daily diary cards. You’ll complete homework assignments. You’ll practice skills even when — especially when — it feels difficult. This is because DBT is not just about understanding concepts; it’s about building new behavioral habits, and habits require repetition.
The pace of progress varies from person to person. Some people notice shifts relatively quickly, particularly in distress tolerance — learning that they can get through a moment of crisis without acting destructively. Deeper changes in emotional patterns and relationships tend to develop more gradually.
Benefits of Dialectical Behavior Therapy
DBT offers clinically significant benefits for people experiencing intense emotions and the behavioral challenges that often accompany them.
- Only therapy with the highest level of empirical support for borderline personality disorder
- Significantly reduces suicidal behavior, self-harm, and substance use in clinical trials
- Teaches four practical skill sets: mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness
- Improves treatment retention — people stay in treatment longer with DBT than with many other approaches
- Reduces psychiatric hospitalizations and emergency room visits, as shown in multiple studies
- Addresses the root of emotional dysregulation, not just surface symptoms
- Effective for co-occurring disorders, particularly when substance use and personality disorders occur together
- Combines acceptance and validation with concrete strategies for change
Conditions We Treat with Dialectical Behavior Therapy
DBT was originally developed for borderline personality disorder but has since been adapted for a range of conditions characterized by emotional dysregulation and impulsive behavior. At Advanced Health and Education, our clinicians may use DBT to address:
Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)
Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a treatable condition that affects emotion regulation, self-image, and relationships. Advanced Health and Education in Eatontown, NJ offers structured BPD treatment with evidence-based approaches including DBT.
Learn moreDepression
Depression is more than feeling sad—it’s a treatable mental health condition that can affect mood, sleep, energy, and daily functioning.
Learn morePost-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
PTSD develops after trauma and can include intrusive memories, avoidance, mood changes, and hypervigilance. At Advanced Health and Education in Eatontown, NJ, trauma-focused therapies like EMDR and CBT are central to our PTSD treatment approach.
Learn moreBipolar Disorder
Bipolar disorder involves episodes of depression and mania or hypomania—high energy, reduced sleep, and impulsive behavior. At Advanced Health and Education in Eatontown, NJ, we provide structured bipolar disorder treatment to help you achieve long-term stability.
Learn moreSubstance Use Disorders
Substance use disorders (SUDs) are treatable medical conditions involving continued use of alcohol or drugs despite harm. Advanced Health and Education in Eatontown, NJ provides comprehensive addiction treatment from medical detox through outpatient care, including specialized dual diagnosis programming.
Learn moreResearch & Evidence for DBT
−0.62
Pooled effect size for reducing suicidal/self-harm behavior vs. TAU
Kliem et al., Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, 2010
50%
Reduction in self-harm episodes in Linehan's original RCT vs. community treatment
Linehan et al., Archives of General Psychiatry, 2006
1,673
Adolescent participants across 21 studies of DBT-A
Kothgassner et al., Psychological Medicine, 2021
24 mo
Sustained improvement duration documented in BPD patients post-treatment
Hernandez-Bustamante et al., Iranian Journal of Psychiatry, 2024
Dialectical Behavior Therapy is recognized as the gold-standard treatment for borderline personality disorder and has the strongest evidence base for reducing suicidal and self-injurious behaviors of any psychotherapy. A meta-analysis of randomized controlled trials found a significant net benefit of DBT over treatment as usual for suicide and parasuicidal behavior, with a pooled effect size (Hedges’ g) of −0.62 — a moderate-to-large clinical effect.1
Beyond its original application for BPD, DBT has been evaluated across an expanding range of conditions. An 18-study meta-analysis demonstrated that DBT significantly reduces self-directed violence (d = −0.32) and the frequency of psychiatric crisis services utilization (d = −0.38), translating to fewer emergency department visits and fewer psychiatric hospitalizations.2 For adolescents, a systematic review and meta-analysis of 21 studies comprising 1,673 participants found DBT produced small to moderate effects for reducing both self-harm (g = −0.44) and suicidal ideation (g = −0.31) compared to control groups.3
DBT’s comprehensive treatment model — combining individual therapy, group skills training, phone coaching, and therapist consultation teams — has been adapted for substance use disorders, eating disorders, treatment-resistant depression, and PTSD. The Cochrane Collaboration, SAMHSA, and NICE all recognize DBT as an evidence-based treatment. Its emphasis on building concrete, teachable skills makes it particularly effective in structured treatment settings like residential and intensive outpatient programs.
Frequently Asked Questions
What does 'dialectical' mean in DBT?
“Dialectical” refers to the integration of two seemingly opposing ideas. In DBT, the central dialectic is between acceptance (“you are doing your best”) and change (“you need to do better”). DBT holds both of these truths at the same time, rather than choosing one over the other. This balance of validation and change is what makes DBT effective for people who have felt invalidated by other approaches.
Is DBT only for borderline personality disorder?
No. While DBT was originally developed for borderline personality disorder and has the strongest evidence base for that condition, it has since been adapted and studied for a wide range of problems including substance use disorders, depression, eating disorders, PTSD, and self-harm behaviors. The core skills — mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness — are relevant to anyone who experiences intense emotions or struggles with impulse control.
How is DBT different from regular CBT?
DBT grew out of CBT but adds several critical elements. First, it incorporates acceptance and mindfulness strategies alongside change strategies. Second, it uses a comprehensive, multi-component structure (individual therapy, skills groups, phone coaching, and therapist consultation teams). Third, it was specifically designed for people with severe emotional dysregulation — people for whom standard CBT alone wasn’t enough.
What are diary cards in DBT?
Diary cards are daily tracking tools where you record your emotions, urges (such as urges to use substances or self-harm), and which DBT skills you used throughout the day. They serve two purposes: they increase your self-awareness in real time, and they give your therapist concrete data to work with in individual sessions. Most clients find that the habit of daily tracking itself becomes a therapeutic tool.
How long does DBT take?
A standard course of comprehensive outpatient DBT runs approximately one year, with clients attending both individual sessions and skills groups weekly. The skills group cycles through all four modules over about 24 weeks, and clients typically complete the cycle at least once. In residential or intensive outpatient settings, the timeline may be compressed. The skills, however, are meant to be practiced indefinitely.
References
- Linehan MM. Cognitive-Behavioral Treatment of Borderline Personality Disorder. Guilford Press; 1993.
- Linehan MM. DBT Skills Training Manual. 2nd ed. Guilford Press; 2015.
- Stoffers-Winterling JM, Völlm BA, Rücker G, Timmer A, Huband N, Lieb K. Psychological therapies for people with borderline personality disorder. Cochrane Database Syst Rev. 2012;(8):CD005652.
- May JM, Richardi TM, Barth KS. Dialectical behavior therapy as treatment for borderline personality disorder. Ment Health Clin. 2016;6(2):62-67.
- Linehan MM. Skills Training Manual for Treating Borderline Personality Disorder. Guilford Press; 1993.
- Dimeff LA, Linehan MM. Dialectical behavior therapy for substance abusers. Addict Sci Clin Pract. 2008;4(2):39-47.
- Linehan MM, Schmidt H, Dimeff LA, Craft JC, Kanter J, Comtois KA. Dialectical behavior therapy for patients with borderline personality disorder and drug-dependence. Am J Addict. 1999;8(4):279-292.
- Lee NK, Cameron J, Jenner L. A systematic review of interventions for co-occurring substance use and borderline personality disorders. Drug Alcohol Rev. 2015;34(6):663-672.
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Clinical Director
Kelsey Blakeslee, LCSW, LCADC, is the Clinical Director at Advanced Health and Education, where she provides clinical oversight and leadership for complex mental health and substance use treatment programs. Dually licensed in social work and addiction counseling, she integrates CBT-based, skills-focused, and strengths-based approaches to promote high-quality, ethical care. Kelsey is committed to fostering a collaborative treatment culture centered on clinical excellence and client success.
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